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It's beginning to look a lot like Christmas...
Don't miss out on this annual event that is sure to get you into the holiday spirit!
It's beginning to look a lot like Christmas...
Don't miss out on this annual event that is sure to get you into the holiday spirit!
Monday, November 8, 2010
It's November and I'm not ready for snow!
October was certainly a fun filled month. Fall craft fairs, my son's birthday party and of course, Halloween festivities. I was happy when it was all happening, but glad when it finally came to an end. I had a non-stop week up through Halloween night, so when November 1st hit, I gave a huge sigh of relief.
November seems to be the "in-between" month, where there isn't as much activity for our family and we just get ready for Thanksgiving. It's a time for us to slow down a bit before the madness of December celebrations begin. It's a time for me to reflect on life a bit, give thanks and appreciate my blessings.
Living in New England is wonderful. We get to experience seasonal changes and relish in old traditions. However, no matter how much I look forward to this time of year, I do NOT look forward to the New England weather!!!! Though my children came screaming and jumping for joy this morning for the little snow we had on the ground this morning, I can say my heart fell and first thing I did was see if the kids had school! To my dismay, they do. *SIGH*
So, as I begin my Monday morning dragging the kids out in this cold, wet, slippery weather, I will remind myself that I have a roof over my head, heat in my house and that this is all part of living in CT. Who knows, tomorrow could be sunny and warm! Someone once told me years ago that if you don't like what you see outside today, wait, it will change tomorrow. That's something I can look forward to, at least!
November seems to be the "in-between" month, where there isn't as much activity for our family and we just get ready for Thanksgiving. It's a time for us to slow down a bit before the madness of December celebrations begin. It's a time for me to reflect on life a bit, give thanks and appreciate my blessings.
Living in New England is wonderful. We get to experience seasonal changes and relish in old traditions. However, no matter how much I look forward to this time of year, I do NOT look forward to the New England weather!!!! Though my children came screaming and jumping for joy this morning for the little snow we had on the ground this morning, I can say my heart fell and first thing I did was see if the kids had school! To my dismay, they do. *SIGH*
So, as I begin my Monday morning dragging the kids out in this cold, wet, slippery weather, I will remind myself that I have a roof over my head, heat in my house and that this is all part of living in CT. Who knows, tomorrow could be sunny and warm! Someone once told me years ago that if you don't like what you see outside today, wait, it will change tomorrow. That's something I can look forward to, at least!
Monday, October 18, 2010
Childhood Literacy Development – Early Childhood Literacy - Parenting.com
An interesting article about how crucial it is to read and talk with your child early on in life. Yes, children learn quite a bit from school, but it truly starts at home. Parents are the first teachers. Take time to read to your child EVERY DAY! Have conversations with them and get them to talk as much about their day. These are all important things we can easily do to ensure our children have a good foundation as they enter their school career.
Tuesday, September 28, 2010
Storytime at Sassafras - for those who love children's books, this is for you.
I'm very excited about my first-ever Storytime hour at Sassafras Restaurant next month, October 17th at 4pm.
I will read from the Barefoot Books collection, two of which are Driving My Tractor and The Beeman. Barefoot Books books are fun, colorful and interactive. I'll have puppets along with me and children will have a chance to do a craft as well. I am happy to have this opportunity to share these beautiful books to the community.
Sassafras will have their delicious ice cream to serve as a treat afterwards. For $2.49, kids will be able to make their own Mr. Sassafras (an ice cream clown). There is no charge for the storytime or craft. A nominal donation is suggested, but not required.
I will have many of the Barefoot Books on display for parents to view and purchase. The holidays are coming and now is the time to stock up on some of those gifts. Grandparents are especially interested because books are the gift that keeps on giving time and again.
I will read from the Barefoot Books collection, two of which are Driving My Tractor and The Beeman. Barefoot Books books are fun, colorful and interactive. I'll have puppets along with me and children will have a chance to do a craft as well. I am happy to have this opportunity to share these beautiful books to the community.
Sassafras will have their delicious ice cream to serve as a treat afterwards. For $2.49, kids will be able to make their own Mr. Sassafras (an ice cream clown). There is no charge for the storytime or craft. A nominal donation is suggested, but not required.
I will have many of the Barefoot Books on display for parents to view and purchase. The holidays are coming and now is the time to stock up on some of those gifts. Grandparents are especially interested because books are the gift that keeps on giving time and again.
Monday, September 20, 2010
Jones Farm News | CT Best Preview Weekend Sept 25 & 26 | Jones Family Farms | Shelton, CT
Jones Farm News CT Best Preview Weekend Sept 25 & 26 Jones Family Farms Shelton, CT
If you didn't make it to strawberry or blueberry picking, the farmer's market or any Harvest Kitchen classes this past summer, you MUST stop by Jones' Family Farm during the fall season! Though the leaves on the trees might not be quite as colorful as they were last year, it's still a beautiful time of year to visit the farm and Pumpkinseed Hill. Kids will love picking their own pumpkins and visiting the new resident piggies!
This weekend, they will be hosting a special preview with demonstrations and local merchants available to sell their products. Bring your family and friends for a day that is sure to be great fun for all!
If you didn't make it to strawberry or blueberry picking, the farmer's market or any Harvest Kitchen classes this past summer, you MUST stop by Jones' Family Farm during the fall season! Though the leaves on the trees might not be quite as colorful as they were last year, it's still a beautiful time of year to visit the farm and Pumpkinseed Hill. Kids will love picking their own pumpkins and visiting the new resident piggies!
This weekend, they will be hosting a special preview with demonstrations and local merchants available to sell their products. Bring your family and friends for a day that is sure to be great fun for all!
Tuesday, September 14, 2010
Family Friendly Restaurant in the heart of Huntington
Looking for a local place to eat out and is still kid-friendly? Look no further than Sassafras Diner! The atmosphere is casual, the food is down-right delicious and the owners and staff are friendly. What else can you ask for? Well, how about their very own ice cream parlor! Kids and adults alike can choose to get a cone or full-fledged sundae with over 15 flavors of ice cream to choose from!
Now, if that doesn't entice you, the food certainly will! Is breakfast your thing? How about trying their famous Belgian Waffles topped with strawberries and whipped cream. More of a lunch eater? You won't be disappointed with any of their special sandwich melts or soups. Too tired to cook dinner? Stop in for one of their hot meals like Yankee Pot Roast or Battered Fish & Chips.
The restaurant recently underwent a few changes with newly painted walls and shelving that just adds to that "homey" touch. Jean Poniros, the owner, always decorates it for the season, too. Right now, she has it all decked out for Halloween and Fall.
They have a new website and are running a "Dinner for Two" drawing every month. Add your name to their email list and you are entered for a chance to win. Just recently, a couple celebrating their 68 years of marriage won the dinner giveaway! Now that's a celebration!
Stop in to Sassafras. Not only will you get great service and food, you will be supporting local business.
Now, if that doesn't entice you, the food certainly will! Is breakfast your thing? How about trying their famous Belgian Waffles topped with strawberries and whipped cream. More of a lunch eater? You won't be disappointed with any of their special sandwich melts or soups. Too tired to cook dinner? Stop in for one of their hot meals like Yankee Pot Roast or Battered Fish & Chips.
The restaurant recently underwent a few changes with newly painted walls and shelving that just adds to that "homey" touch. Jean Poniros, the owner, always decorates it for the season, too. Right now, she has it all decked out for Halloween and Fall.
They have a new website and are running a "Dinner for Two" drawing every month. Add your name to their email list and you are entered for a chance to win. Just recently, a couple celebrating their 68 years of marriage won the dinner giveaway! Now that's a celebration!
Stop in to Sassafras. Not only will you get great service and food, you will be supporting local business.
Monday, September 13, 2010
And so it begins...
Two weeks into school and the craziness has already begun. I thought that after a busy summer, things would somewhat slow down and be back to a "normal" routine. Hmp! How foolish of me! My son is in Kindergarten at a new school, and my daughter attends preschool 3 days a week. We just started fall sports and activities again and my head is spinning!
Last week was a killer. My calendar was completely full with activities, meetings and events, both day and night, including a wedding, birthday party and vendor fair. I kept saying, "just wait until Sunday night...just wait 'till Sunday...."
I kept looking forward to this week because I knew that my schedule was lighter. Yet, somehow, I have already found a way to fill in those little gaps of time with whatever seems to suit my fancy. I should know better. It's inevitable. I cannot sit still for long. I like to get involved. I like to help. I want to be part of something more than my normal day-to-day existence.
Thus, my dilemna of a messy house, a disorganized desk and a frustrated husband who wonders why he doesn't have black socks for work the next morning. Hey, the kids are fed and bathed...doesn't that count?
What I really need is BALANCE. I've been praying for balance and peace for quite a while. They say you need to be careful for what you ask for....when I ask for balance, I am given a million things to juggle. If I ask for peace, I am given a home filled with chaos. And PATIENCE. That's a big one. When I ask for patience, my day is full of challenges that threaten the very patience I so strongly seek.
So, at this time, I surrender and simply pray. God, you know my prayers. You understand who I am. Help me to learn accept how I should live my day while providing for my family. In Jesus' Name, Amen.
Last week was a killer. My calendar was completely full with activities, meetings and events, both day and night, including a wedding, birthday party and vendor fair. I kept saying, "just wait until Sunday night...just wait 'till Sunday...."
I kept looking forward to this week because I knew that my schedule was lighter. Yet, somehow, I have already found a way to fill in those little gaps of time with whatever seems to suit my fancy. I should know better. It's inevitable. I cannot sit still for long. I like to get involved. I like to help. I want to be part of something more than my normal day-to-day existence.
Thus, my dilemna of a messy house, a disorganized desk and a frustrated husband who wonders why he doesn't have black socks for work the next morning. Hey, the kids are fed and bathed...doesn't that count?
What I really need is BALANCE. I've been praying for balance and peace for quite a while. They say you need to be careful for what you ask for....when I ask for balance, I am given a million things to juggle. If I ask for peace, I am given a home filled with chaos. And PATIENCE. That's a big one. When I ask for patience, my day is full of challenges that threaten the very patience I so strongly seek.
So, at this time, I surrender and simply pray. God, you know my prayers. You understand who I am. Help me to learn accept how I should live my day while providing for my family. In Jesus' Name, Amen.
Wednesday, September 1, 2010
Children are like Balloons
He's never really had any reservations about leaving me to explore new surroundings and make new friends. He reminds me of when I was a child...ready to take on the world with no fear...just sheer enthusiasm.
Of course, I want the best for him and I give him as much encouragement as I can every day. I tell him how proud I am of him, being brave taking the bus alone (he was quick to point out that he has his buddy on the bus that he sits with each day, so he's not totally alone!) Maybe I'm doing some things right. Or maybe it's all him. Either way, I can't help but feel proud and smile.
As I was surfing the net tonight, I came across a poem that it so suiting to this week, for many parents whose children are experiencing their first days of a new school, new experience, new friends. I hope this brings inspiration and a sense of peace. I think I'll go buy a balloon to welcome my boy home tomorrow!
Children Are Like Balloons
By Dan Gauthier
Children are like balloons with a message inside. They start out small and we inflate them with something of ourselves. As we pour our lives into them,
they spread sunshine,
give joy,
brighten the days and
cheer up the sick.
They remind us of being young and that life is fragile. They celebrate living.
When discouraged, they are like a balloon that deflates. A simple openness allow us to refill them.
with hope for the future and
feeling that they are special,
and the knowledge that they are loved.
Their enthusiasm is like a balloon carried on the wind with never ending energy.
They sway and drift,
it's then that they need our
prayers and loving guidance,
without to much pressure
that would cause them to burst.
The time comes, sprinkled with tears and
joy, when others are able to read the message we have written on their hearts. So we let go and with faith we let fate guide our precious balloons.
Not the end...but truly the beginning.
Wednesday, August 25, 2010
While You Were Busy, Life Passed By
By Jason Kotecki
This summer I enjoyed a nice vacation in Door County with my family. We rented a house that was just big enough for the eleven of us. We roasted marshmallows, fished for salmon, gazed at the stars, played mini golf, sampled wine, sat on the beach, and ate lots of cherry-related products (thumbs up on the cherry barbecue sauce). I also did something I haven’t done in years: I didn’t check e-mail or surf the internet once.
Somehow, the world continued to rotate on its 23-degree axis.
Now, it took some planning and preparation to pull it off. Before I left, I cleaned up my e-mail inbox, prepped all my web site files, and trained someone in the office to do the site updating. I had intended to check e-mail mid-week, but once I got a taste of living low tech, that goal didn’t take long to evaporate. It was a relaxing week.
And now for emphasis: the sun still rose and set on a regular basis and the business didn’t crumble to the ground.
Hmphf. It all makes me wonder why I place so much urgency and importance on checking my e-mail so many times a day. There were plenty of internet cafés I could’ve visited to “stay connected.” (Or in other words, “stay distracted.”) But then I might have missed out on playing catch with my brother, talking about our hopes and dreams. I might have missed out on the spirited game of Disney Uno with my nieces. Or the refreshing walk with my bride amidst a green cathedral of pine trees.
Our world is connected like never before. And all of our technological advancements are supposed to give us more time. Instead, we fall for the temptation of trying to pack more tasks into the time we’ve saved.
I heard a saying once that if the devil can’t make you bad, he’ll make you busy.
Adultitis thrives in all this busyness. And all this busyness tricks you into feeling like you’re productive. When you feel productive, you think you’re actually getting something accomplished. And when you think you’re getting something accomplished, you are fooled into believing that your work is not only obligatory, but indispensable.
But here’s what’s really happening: life is passing you by.
Many of us miss out on the important stuff because we’re convinced that the busyness is a standard operating procedure. And we’re deceived by the mirage that someday, if we work hard enough, our to-do list will be cleared. As David Allen reminds us in his book “Getting Things Done,” you will die with things STILL on your to-do list.
This never-ending hamster wheel is the part of adulthood you need to escape from now and then. As difficult as it may seem, you need to unplug yourself from the daily grind. To think it’s not possible is not only wrong, it’s flat out foolish. If your situation is really bad (like checking your cell phone for messages every minute on the minute bad), perhaps you should consider an all-out “tech sabbatical.”
These are the questions you need to seriously ask yourself: Do you really need to work extra to afford that lastest gadget? Will life cease to exist if you don’t check your e-mail three times before breakfast? What’s the worst that will happen if you don’t answer your cell phone while you’re having lunch with a friend?
Can you detach yourself from busyness for an hour a day? A day a week? A week every three months?
Here’s the biggie: What will you miss if you don’t?
Jason Kotecki is an artist, author, and professional speaker. Jason and his wife Kim (a former kindergarten teacher) make it their mission in life to fight Adultitis and help people use strategies from childhood to create lives with less stress and more fun. Learn more at www.KimandJason.com
By Jason Kotecki
This summer I enjoyed a nice vacation in Door County with my family. We rented a house that was just big enough for the eleven of us. We roasted marshmallows, fished for salmon, gazed at the stars, played mini golf, sampled wine, sat on the beach, and ate lots of cherry-related products (thumbs up on the cherry barbecue sauce). I also did something I haven’t done in years: I didn’t check e-mail or surf the internet once.
Somehow, the world continued to rotate on its 23-degree axis.
Now, it took some planning and preparation to pull it off. Before I left, I cleaned up my e-mail inbox, prepped all my web site files, and trained someone in the office to do the site updating. I had intended to check e-mail mid-week, but once I got a taste of living low tech, that goal didn’t take long to evaporate. It was a relaxing week.
And now for emphasis: the sun still rose and set on a regular basis and the business didn’t crumble to the ground.
Hmphf. It all makes me wonder why I place so much urgency and importance on checking my e-mail so many times a day. There were plenty of internet cafés I could’ve visited to “stay connected.” (Or in other words, “stay distracted.”) But then I might have missed out on playing catch with my brother, talking about our hopes and dreams. I might have missed out on the spirited game of Disney Uno with my nieces. Or the refreshing walk with my bride amidst a green cathedral of pine trees.
Our world is connected like never before. And all of our technological advancements are supposed to give us more time. Instead, we fall for the temptation of trying to pack more tasks into the time we’ve saved.
I heard a saying once that if the devil can’t make you bad, he’ll make you busy.
Adultitis thrives in all this busyness. And all this busyness tricks you into feeling like you’re productive. When you feel productive, you think you’re actually getting something accomplished. And when you think you’re getting something accomplished, you are fooled into believing that your work is not only obligatory, but indispensable.
But here’s what’s really happening: life is passing you by.
Many of us miss out on the important stuff because we’re convinced that the busyness is a standard operating procedure. And we’re deceived by the mirage that someday, if we work hard enough, our to-do list will be cleared. As David Allen reminds us in his book “Getting Things Done,” you will die with things STILL on your to-do list.
This never-ending hamster wheel is the part of adulthood you need to escape from now and then. As difficult as it may seem, you need to unplug yourself from the daily grind. To think it’s not possible is not only wrong, it’s flat out foolish. If your situation is really bad (like checking your cell phone for messages every minute on the minute bad), perhaps you should consider an all-out “tech sabbatical.”
These are the questions you need to seriously ask yourself: Do you really need to work extra to afford that lastest gadget? Will life cease to exist if you don’t check your e-mail three times before breakfast? What’s the worst that will happen if you don’t answer your cell phone while you’re having lunch with a friend?
Can you detach yourself from busyness for an hour a day? A day a week? A week every three months?
Here’s the biggie: What will you miss if you don’t?
Jason Kotecki is an artist, author, and professional speaker. Jason and his wife Kim (a former kindergarten teacher) make it their mission in life to fight Adultitis and help people use strategies from childhood to create lives with less stress and more fun. Learn more at www.KimandJason.com
Monday, August 23, 2010
Wednesday, August 4, 2010
Peak of Summer
For some, summer is at it's peak right now, with farmer's markets in full operation, country fairs and carnivals abound and day camps and vacations underway. For others, now is the time families fit in their last getaways and vacations. They are also getting ready for school to start the end of August and pick up the latest gadgets and gear their kids need. Are Sketchers really necessary for a 4 and 5 yr old???? Can't the backpack you used last year be good enough for this year?
Though I'm certainly not ready to say goodbye to summer just yet, I am looking forward to the kids getting back into a routine of school. My son will start his first day of kindergarten August 30th! My daughter will begin her 2nd year of preschool after Labor Day. Halelluah!
This has been a challenging summer so far, keeping the kids active, off the "boob tube" as much as possible, while still adding enriching experiences for all of us. I have to say that my intentions out-weighed my actions and results. The one thing we've really kept up educationally speaking, was the reading program with the library. My children have earned many prizes for "reading" one hour of books a week. Things like pool passes, free kids' meals, free ice cream cone and even tickets to a Bluefish Game (which, btw, we still need to get on our calendar to do! ) My son got a kick out of getting the raffle tickets he got for each hour of reading to enter into a jar for a chance to win a big gift basket. However, picking out books is like pulling teeth with him (actually, I think that's easier).
We did manage to see a few free kids' movies at the local movie theaters, as well as go to the parks or pool a couple times. We strawberry and blueberry picked and had dinner at the town green while listening to "music under the stars". I loved dropping them off to day camps where they got to play and learn something new each day, while I enjoyed that precious 3 1/2 hour alone time. Vacation Bible School at St. Joseph's was teriffic. Not only did I have some time to myself, it was nice that the kids got something out of it, too.
And of course, we cannot forget our true summer time fun, which was camping around the area. We managed to fit in 3 trips so far and will be heading out again tomorrow to Hammonasset Beach. This will be sort of a downsized getaway because there are no amenities, no pool and no activities. However, there is the BEACH and the kids can ride their bikes around the loop. My son has recently learned that riding 2 wheels kicks butt compared to the training wheels he was using on the bike! Before he'd go fast, almost flew...now, he almost soars!!! Uh-oh. I'm seeing my childhood life flash before my eyes...cuts& scratches, bloody noses. poor mom. I sure know what she felt like then.
So, as my summer with the kids starts to wane, I will do my best to relish the last moments that make summer memorable: late nights listening to the "peepers", eating ice cream till our bellies explode, digging in some sand between the toes and just being happy that we are all together and healthy.
Though I'm certainly not ready to say goodbye to summer just yet, I am looking forward to the kids getting back into a routine of school. My son will start his first day of kindergarten August 30th! My daughter will begin her 2nd year of preschool after Labor Day. Halelluah!
This has been a challenging summer so far, keeping the kids active, off the "boob tube" as much as possible, while still adding enriching experiences for all of us. I have to say that my intentions out-weighed my actions and results. The one thing we've really kept up educationally speaking, was the reading program with the library. My children have earned many prizes for "reading" one hour of books a week. Things like pool passes, free kids' meals, free ice cream cone and even tickets to a Bluefish Game (which, btw, we still need to get on our calendar to do! ) My son got a kick out of getting the raffle tickets he got for each hour of reading to enter into a jar for a chance to win a big gift basket. However, picking out books is like pulling teeth with him (actually, I think that's easier).
We did manage to see a few free kids' movies at the local movie theaters, as well as go to the parks or pool a couple times. We strawberry and blueberry picked and had dinner at the town green while listening to "music under the stars". I loved dropping them off to day camps where they got to play and learn something new each day, while I enjoyed that precious 3 1/2 hour alone time. Vacation Bible School at St. Joseph's was teriffic. Not only did I have some time to myself, it was nice that the kids got something out of it, too.
And of course, we cannot forget our true summer time fun, which was camping around the area. We managed to fit in 3 trips so far and will be heading out again tomorrow to Hammonasset Beach. This will be sort of a downsized getaway because there are no amenities, no pool and no activities. However, there is the BEACH and the kids can ride their bikes around the loop. My son has recently learned that riding 2 wheels kicks butt compared to the training wheels he was using on the bike! Before he'd go fast, almost flew...now, he almost soars!!! Uh-oh. I'm seeing my childhood life flash before my eyes...cuts& scratches, bloody noses. poor mom. I sure know what she felt like then.
So, as my summer with the kids starts to wane, I will do my best to relish the last moments that make summer memorable: late nights listening to the "peepers", eating ice cream till our bellies explode, digging in some sand between the toes and just being happy that we are all together and healthy.
Monday, June 21, 2010
Let summer reading and activities begin!
I spent most of my Monday leisurely doing things, like a bit of housework (that laundry won't do it by itself) and watching the World Cup Match of Portugal v. N. Korea (7-0 Final). I have had fun chatting with my dad about the games and talking "futbol" lingo with him. It's the one sport that he and I can enjoy together and both understand.
So, after that anhialation by Portugal, I proceded with my house work and made it down to my basement when the computer called my name. I haven't touched it in about 36 hours, so it sucked me right in again.
My mission was to find fun things to do with the kids that are FREE, especially things sponosored by our local libraries. I came out with a pot of gold, with the help of a friend who shared a few links.
First site I stumbled upon was Storyline Online, sponsored by the Screen Actors' Guild. It's a neat site that has streamlined video of various actors reading books to the viewer, with some animation, most less than 7 minutes long at a clip. Perfect for my 4 and 5 yr olds. Though my son wasn't embracing the idea of watching someone read a book to him (he'd rather watch Battleforce Five or The Chipmunks on the computer), he did sit attentively the entire time 4 books were read to him. This was great. Something educational, interesting and FREE! That site is bookmarked now for "things to do when kids are bored" folder.
From there, I researched the various local libraries for their summer reading programs. I have never done this before and wasn't sure what the requirements are for participation. The easiest and maybe one of the "cooler" library summer reading programs is from Fairfield Public Library. You can register online and for a minimum of 5 books, kids can win a free kids meal at Subway, coupon for ice cream at Carvel and and all-day pass to Quassy Park. Wow! My kids probably read about 3 books each a day, if not more!
Many libraries host their own summer reading programs and events, so check out your local library today! Not only are they fun, but they are FREE!
If books aren't what you want and you need something more active, kids can try bowling for free! I haven't tried that with my kids, yet, but could be the perfect thing to do when it's really hot outside, it's raining or just because!
Most communities have family activities as well. Our very own Huntington Green hosts a summer concert series each Wednesday evening. You bring your own chairs, blankets, and if you like, your picnic dinner and sit and relax while listening to various artists entertain.
Summer is the time for craft fairs and agricultural fairs. Two sites you can check out and find what's happening around town and the state are CT Craft Shows and Association of Connecticut Fairs. I absolutely LOVE going to both the craft fairs and the Ag fairs. Farmers Markets are also a fun way to have some family time while taking an educational opportunity to teach children about local and fresh foods.
There is so much to do right around the corner to keep kids entertained, educated, and active. We can all get sucked into the same routine and forget about exploring what our great state has to offer. CT is a beautiful state. Go out and find your favorite thing to do!
So, after that anhialation by Portugal, I proceded with my house work and made it down to my basement when the computer called my name. I haven't touched it in about 36 hours, so it sucked me right in again.
My mission was to find fun things to do with the kids that are FREE, especially things sponosored by our local libraries. I came out with a pot of gold, with the help of a friend who shared a few links.
First site I stumbled upon was Storyline Online, sponsored by the Screen Actors' Guild. It's a neat site that has streamlined video of various actors reading books to the viewer, with some animation, most less than 7 minutes long at a clip. Perfect for my 4 and 5 yr olds. Though my son wasn't embracing the idea of watching someone read a book to him (he'd rather watch Battleforce Five or The Chipmunks on the computer), he did sit attentively the entire time 4 books were read to him. This was great. Something educational, interesting and FREE! That site is bookmarked now for "things to do when kids are bored" folder.
From there, I researched the various local libraries for their summer reading programs. I have never done this before and wasn't sure what the requirements are for participation. The easiest and maybe one of the "cooler" library summer reading programs is from Fairfield Public Library. You can register online and for a minimum of 5 books, kids can win a free kids meal at Subway, coupon for ice cream at Carvel and and all-day pass to Quassy Park. Wow! My kids probably read about 3 books each a day, if not more!
Many libraries host their own summer reading programs and events, so check out your local library today! Not only are they fun, but they are FREE!
If books aren't what you want and you need something more active, kids can try bowling for free! I haven't tried that with my kids, yet, but could be the perfect thing to do when it's really hot outside, it's raining or just because!
Most communities have family activities as well. Our very own Huntington Green hosts a summer concert series each Wednesday evening. You bring your own chairs, blankets, and if you like, your picnic dinner and sit and relax while listening to various artists entertain.
Summer is the time for craft fairs and agricultural fairs. Two sites you can check out and find what's happening around town and the state are CT Craft Shows and Association of Connecticut Fairs. I absolutely LOVE going to both the craft fairs and the Ag fairs. Farmers Markets are also a fun way to have some family time while taking an educational opportunity to teach children about local and fresh foods.
There is so much to do right around the corner to keep kids entertained, educated, and active. We can all get sucked into the same routine and forget about exploring what our great state has to offer. CT is a beautiful state. Go out and find your favorite thing to do!
Monday, June 14, 2010
Tuesday, June 8, 2010
Summer Fun
Our summer season has officially kicked off, with our annual camping trip to upstate NY over Memorial Day Weekend. It was a lot of fun for us and the kids. Lots of families get together on this trip on private land to relax and enjoy disconnecting a bit from the world (no electricity for the RV's here!)
I still haven't gotten myself out of this crazy slump of nothingness. Can't focus. My brain seems to be on perpetual vacation mode and I am having a hard time getting it energized.
So, what to do with yourself when you should otherwise be doing housework and organizing? Surf the net, of course!
I stumbled upon a couple interesting links from suzysaid.com and thought I'd share. Since our summer schedule is underway, with camps scheduled and mini vacations (as my husband puts it with our camping trips...I'd disagree with the term "vacations", but that's for another time), I wanted to see what else was happening in the area. One place I found was a sports facility that not only has developmental skills classes for soccer, lacrosse and basketball, it also has camps for kids at a very reasonable price! Check out United Athletic Centers.
And if that doesn't get you excited, Skyhawks Camps is another great sports summer program with wonderful coaching staff. Similar in the UAC camps in that they teach developmental skills for various sports. My kids did it last year and are doing it again this year. Plus, the price is reasonable!
I'm all about keeping my kids busy this summer and having them keep active, too. My 5 yr old son is definitely the athletic type and loves to run and play sports. My daughter, a year younger than him, likes to do whatever he does. So, it makes it easier for me to drop two kids off at one place than drive here and there to cater to their specific needs. I'm ok with that for now.
I would like my daughter try to seek more of her own identity. I'm glad she has her "one thing" her brother doesn't do...dance and gymnastics at The Little Gym in Orange. They have a class that combines non-competitive dance of ballet and tap with gymnastics, so the girls get the best of both worlds! A little of this and a little of that. I love it! Plus, I don't have to worry about recitals, expensive costumes and my pocketbook! I get to see the joy my daughter has trying new steps, learning proper terms and best of all, have fun doing it!
I love The Little Gym of Orange. In addition to the classes, they also have camp days where you can drop off your child for 4 hours a day, or full day as well. I love the fact I don't have to commmit to a whole week and can pick and choose my days. PLUS, another bonus...Parent Survival Night! Who doesn't love that?
Right now, my kids are at a 3 hr/day camp for the week at their preschool (which, by the way, my son just graduated from last week!) at Susanna Wesley School. This week is Pirate Week and they are making all kinds of things for their pirate adventures. Awesome.
As you can see, my kids' schedules are pretty full already, with camp this week, camp with Skyhawks end of June, our camping trips in July, hopefully Vacation Bible School, and some day camps at The Little Gym. Oh, and in btwn all that, swim lessons!
I wonder what my mom did with me all summer long? Must have been a long one for her. I know that I'd go a little bananas if my kids didn't have some activities to keep them busy. I'm loving the quiet time so far. Gives my mind time to rejuvenate...and wander. And right now, my thoughts wander to wanting to get a cup of coffee, sitting down with a good book and relaxing, soaking in the sun. ahhh, that's what summer is all about for me. Gotta love it!
I still haven't gotten myself out of this crazy slump of nothingness. Can't focus. My brain seems to be on perpetual vacation mode and I am having a hard time getting it energized.
So, what to do with yourself when you should otherwise be doing housework and organizing? Surf the net, of course!
I stumbled upon a couple interesting links from suzysaid.com and thought I'd share. Since our summer schedule is underway, with camps scheduled and mini vacations (as my husband puts it with our camping trips...I'd disagree with the term "vacations", but that's for another time), I wanted to see what else was happening in the area. One place I found was a sports facility that not only has developmental skills classes for soccer, lacrosse and basketball, it also has camps for kids at a very reasonable price! Check out United Athletic Centers.
And if that doesn't get you excited, Skyhawks Camps is another great sports summer program with wonderful coaching staff. Similar in the UAC camps in that they teach developmental skills for various sports. My kids did it last year and are doing it again this year. Plus, the price is reasonable!
I'm all about keeping my kids busy this summer and having them keep active, too. My 5 yr old son is definitely the athletic type and loves to run and play sports. My daughter, a year younger than him, likes to do whatever he does. So, it makes it easier for me to drop two kids off at one place than drive here and there to cater to their specific needs. I'm ok with that for now.
I would like my daughter try to seek more of her own identity. I'm glad she has her "one thing" her brother doesn't do...dance and gymnastics at The Little Gym in Orange. They have a class that combines non-competitive dance of ballet and tap with gymnastics, so the girls get the best of both worlds! A little of this and a little of that. I love it! Plus, I don't have to worry about recitals, expensive costumes and my pocketbook! I get to see the joy my daughter has trying new steps, learning proper terms and best of all, have fun doing it!
I love The Little Gym of Orange. In addition to the classes, they also have camp days where you can drop off your child for 4 hours a day, or full day as well. I love the fact I don't have to commmit to a whole week and can pick and choose my days. PLUS, another bonus...Parent Survival Night! Who doesn't love that?
Right now, my kids are at a 3 hr/day camp for the week at their preschool (which, by the way, my son just graduated from last week!) at Susanna Wesley School. This week is Pirate Week and they are making all kinds of things for their pirate adventures. Awesome.
As you can see, my kids' schedules are pretty full already, with camp this week, camp with Skyhawks end of June, our camping trips in July, hopefully Vacation Bible School, and some day camps at The Little Gym. Oh, and in btwn all that, swim lessons!
I wonder what my mom did with me all summer long? Must have been a long one for her. I know that I'd go a little bananas if my kids didn't have some activities to keep them busy. I'm loving the quiet time so far. Gives my mind time to rejuvenate...and wander. And right now, my thoughts wander to wanting to get a cup of coffee, sitting down with a good book and relaxing, soaking in the sun. ahhh, that's what summer is all about for me. Gotta love it!
Tuesday, May 11, 2010
A cluttered house makes for a cluttered mind
I have not kept my promise of getting a hold of my mess in my home. I've been talking and thinking about it, but not taking action to fix it.
Are there any other moms out there that just can't get it done? Do you feel overwhelmed by the day-to-day activities with kids and your own desires to escape your home that it is purposely forgotten?
Call it avoidance. Call it laziness. Whatever it is called, it is NOT a good thing. I am at a point where I think I need professional help. But, deep down inside, I know I can do it on my own. I don't need a pro to tell me that I'm a slob and hoarder I know that already! I just need someone to help me figure out why I have such attachment to so much and no place to put it.
I have found that I work better in groups. I have a couple friends out there that have helped me in the past, even if for only companionship while I fold that mountain load of laundry.
I need to weed out more things. Simplicity should be my goal. I don't need so many clothes. Maybe that would help with that mountain of laundry! So, thank goodness the church by me is having a clothing drive all month! Plus, they are having a tag sale on May 22 (my bday). I have already started tagging things, but need to really work more and more on it...before I know it, I will run out of time.
Time management is also something I have to work on. That probably is THE most critical part of getting organized. Schedule a specific time during the day to do my chores. It sounds so easy, doesn't it? So, what are my excuses? I choose fun over work. I get distracted easily. That is a huge problem of mine.
So, back to basics here. If I can lay out a simple plan and schedule for each day, and do one thing that is purposeful each day, I will get out of this mess.
It may sound like my house is a disaster zone. Honestly, it's not horrible. it's really my finished basement that is the worst. It became a dumping zone for me. The living areas of our home are not bad. I try to keep that neat. They could use improvement. Sure, I need to rid the piles here and there.
I've heard that a cluttered house or room makes for a cluttered mind, which makes complete sense. If I can eliminate the clutter, I can open my mind for more things that are of importance...and maybe my cluttered mind will be more focused and less distracted to accomplish more.
Are there any other moms out there that just can't get it done? Do you feel overwhelmed by the day-to-day activities with kids and your own desires to escape your home that it is purposely forgotten?
Call it avoidance. Call it laziness. Whatever it is called, it is NOT a good thing. I am at a point where I think I need professional help. But, deep down inside, I know I can do it on my own. I don't need a pro to tell me that I'm a slob and hoarder I know that already! I just need someone to help me figure out why I have such attachment to so much and no place to put it.
I have found that I work better in groups. I have a couple friends out there that have helped me in the past, even if for only companionship while I fold that mountain load of laundry.
I need to weed out more things. Simplicity should be my goal. I don't need so many clothes. Maybe that would help with that mountain of laundry! So, thank goodness the church by me is having a clothing drive all month! Plus, they are having a tag sale on May 22 (my bday). I have already started tagging things, but need to really work more and more on it...before I know it, I will run out of time.
Time management is also something I have to work on. That probably is THE most critical part of getting organized. Schedule a specific time during the day to do my chores. It sounds so easy, doesn't it? So, what are my excuses? I choose fun over work. I get distracted easily. That is a huge problem of mine.
So, back to basics here. If I can lay out a simple plan and schedule for each day, and do one thing that is purposeful each day, I will get out of this mess.
It may sound like my house is a disaster zone. Honestly, it's not horrible. it's really my finished basement that is the worst. It became a dumping zone for me. The living areas of our home are not bad. I try to keep that neat. They could use improvement. Sure, I need to rid the piles here and there.
I've heard that a cluttered house or room makes for a cluttered mind, which makes complete sense. If I can eliminate the clutter, I can open my mind for more things that are of importance...and maybe my cluttered mind will be more focused and less distracted to accomplish more.
Saturday, March 27, 2010
To Organize or Not...
...that is not even a question! I must begin this organizing quest very soon or I will get lost in all the mess that I've created in our home. I just read an article in last Friday's CT Post about a woman in N.C. who has her own website to help others clean and get organized. Check out Flylady! I've been inspired to try her approach because I'm living in "CHAOS (Can't Have Anyone Over Syndrome)".
Keep posted on what my progress will be as I delve into the world of organizing my home and hopefully clear up the clutter that is bogging down my life.
Keep posted on what my progress will be as I delve into the world of organizing my home and hopefully clear up the clutter that is bogging down my life.
Monday, March 22, 2010
Monday, Monday....
Monday...a day where you start your week again. A day to get the kids ready for school, rushing out the door and trying to get all your errands done before the kids come back home. Ahhhh, the life of being a stay-at-home mom.
Well, this particular Monday, I did some of this, but managed to squeeze in some fun time. I usually try to do that everyday, and today was no exception! After dropping off my son to pre-school, my daughter and I went to the bank to make some deposits, then we hit one of our favorite eating spots, Sassafras Diner in Huntington Center. It's a family-owned and run diner that's been around since my husband was a kid. I love it there because it's intimate and the food is GREAT! My kids love it because they make Mickey-Mouse pancakes and serve ice cream! Today's choice? A fresh belgian waffle with strawberries and whipped cream...yumm-ee!!
After that, we just headed back home. At that point, I should have done my much needed chores of laundry, dishes and cleaning, but for some reason, the couch was calling my name. So, while my daughter was watching Franny's Feet on PBS, I took a little cat nap. It was delightful and so worth the time!
Sure, my housework didn't get done. And unfortunately, it's still waiting for me. What else is new? I love being a mom, a PTO parent, a consultant for Tastefully Simple and every other fun thing in my life...but, I don't care at all for housework!!! I guess the key word is FUN...if I don't perceive it as fun, then I avoid it at all costs.
One of my quests this year is to make my housework FUN (cough-cough). Is that even possible? Can washing dishes bring a smile to my face? How about picking up after the kids' toys and clothes left on the floor? Well, maybe not exactly, but certainly my attitude towards them can improve. And the end result could be true joy that perhaps I've never felt before. I want to prove to myself that I can make housework fun. and maybe at the end of this little experiment, I can teach my children something valuable, too.
Now, the question is how do I start? My husband will tell me, you need to make a list. I hate lists...LOATHE them. Not sure where that came from, but for some reason, when I hear that from him or anyone else for that matter, I cringe. Why???? Lists keep you focused and you can plan your day according to them. Maybe that's my biggest problem. I don't plan my days. I let my days plan my life. I pride myself on being spontaneous, adventurous, unpredictable and fun. Those same qualities, however, get in the way of accomplishing daily tasks.
Sure, Monday was a wash. Not only did it rain and I took a nap in the afternoon, I neglected my responsibilities for the sake of a little bit of rebelious fun. Tomorrow is a new day. I will write down 1-2 tasks that MUST get done and do them. After I do, I can do a happy dance. That would be fun, right?
Well, this particular Monday, I did some of this, but managed to squeeze in some fun time. I usually try to do that everyday, and today was no exception! After dropping off my son to pre-school, my daughter and I went to the bank to make some deposits, then we hit one of our favorite eating spots, Sassafras Diner in Huntington Center. It's a family-owned and run diner that's been around since my husband was a kid. I love it there because it's intimate and the food is GREAT! My kids love it because they make Mickey-Mouse pancakes and serve ice cream! Today's choice? A fresh belgian waffle with strawberries and whipped cream...yumm-ee!!
After that, we just headed back home. At that point, I should have done my much needed chores of laundry, dishes and cleaning, but for some reason, the couch was calling my name. So, while my daughter was watching Franny's Feet on PBS, I took a little cat nap. It was delightful and so worth the time!
Sure, my housework didn't get done. And unfortunately, it's still waiting for me. What else is new? I love being a mom, a PTO parent, a consultant for Tastefully Simple and every other fun thing in my life...but, I don't care at all for housework!!! I guess the key word is FUN...if I don't perceive it as fun, then I avoid it at all costs.
One of my quests this year is to make my housework FUN (cough-cough). Is that even possible? Can washing dishes bring a smile to my face? How about picking up after the kids' toys and clothes left on the floor? Well, maybe not exactly, but certainly my attitude towards them can improve. And the end result could be true joy that perhaps I've never felt before. I want to prove to myself that I can make housework fun. and maybe at the end of this little experiment, I can teach my children something valuable, too.
Now, the question is how do I start? My husband will tell me, you need to make a list. I hate lists...LOATHE them. Not sure where that came from, but for some reason, when I hear that from him or anyone else for that matter, I cringe. Why???? Lists keep you focused and you can plan your day according to them. Maybe that's my biggest problem. I don't plan my days. I let my days plan my life. I pride myself on being spontaneous, adventurous, unpredictable and fun. Those same qualities, however, get in the way of accomplishing daily tasks.
Sure, Monday was a wash. Not only did it rain and I took a nap in the afternoon, I neglected my responsibilities for the sake of a little bit of rebelious fun. Tomorrow is a new day. I will write down 1-2 tasks that MUST get done and do them. After I do, I can do a happy dance. That would be fun, right?
Monday, March 15, 2010
Welcome!
So, here I am, finally catching up with society and technology and have entered the realm of blogging. I don't consider myself a writer, but I have many ideas that I like to share. I consider myself a professional brainstormer...or an "idea generator" if you will. What better means to have everyone hear my ideas than a public blog?
The purpose of this blog will be to share with you things about Shelton, The Valley area and Beyond, particularly focused on parent/child resources. It will be a collection of my favorite sites, comments about my findings and most likely entries about being a parent.
As a mom of two pre-school children, I'm always looking for that something different to do with them. Though I don't mind spending the money, I am trying to be more creative with spending less and still have fun with my children!
There are many sites out there for CT parents, but what I found lacking was our own community mentioned. It seems that most sites focus on the big cities like Hartford, New Haven and lower Fairfield County. I don't mind taking a trip down to Stamford for that occasional event or activity, but on a daily/weekly basis, I would rather support the local community and do something nearby instead.
My goal is to not only collect the ideas but to share them with you! I welcome your feedback and suggestions (please keep it nice and clean!) and if I like your idea, I will post it as a favorite!
The purpose of this blog will be to share with you things about Shelton, The Valley area and Beyond, particularly focused on parent/child resources. It will be a collection of my favorite sites, comments about my findings and most likely entries about being a parent.
As a mom of two pre-school children, I'm always looking for that something different to do with them. Though I don't mind spending the money, I am trying to be more creative with spending less and still have fun with my children!
There are many sites out there for CT parents, but what I found lacking was our own community mentioned. It seems that most sites focus on the big cities like Hartford, New Haven and lower Fairfield County. I don't mind taking a trip down to Stamford for that occasional event or activity, but on a daily/weekly basis, I would rather support the local community and do something nearby instead.
My goal is to not only collect the ideas but to share them with you! I welcome your feedback and suggestions (please keep it nice and clean!) and if I like your idea, I will post it as a favorite!
I'm looking forward to seeing how this blog will evolve. Perhaps it will serve parents only in the valley area, or maybe it will be just my own personal venue for speaking my mind, regardless of subject. I do hope I can help at least a handful of parents out there. The least of what I gain from this experience? I can finally organize my thoughts in one place instead of random notes here and there and clogging up my desk and...hhhmm...brain. I think my husband will appreciate that!
So, thanks for reading and keep an eye out for my next post.
Elisa
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